The Loop of Doom

My term, that for me, defines how I experience certain situations. let me explain:

Many of my relationships; when misunderstandings occur, cause what I call ‘the loop of doom’. A cycle of multi-layered over thinking, explaining and solution seeking that prevents me from participating in the moment, which, historically for me, PNT’s are seen running for the hills.

This lead me to the idea - If PNT’s subconsciously believe that successful relationships do not have conflict then in my opinion this allows conflict to destroy relationships because it is perceived as a marker for personal failing but to me it is necessary, again perpetuating the message that my Autistic ways are unhealthy. (Becca Sangwin, 2016)

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